Open this video to full screen and contemplate the message. And feel free to commune here. Wishing you all a wonderful and mindful Thanksgiving week.
And so begins my birthday "week." As I take days to contemplate my life, and days to eat (I hope someone remembers to buy one) chocolate cake, gratitude will be my primary goal. I will try to focus on gratitude for what I have, rather than what I don't. Gratitude for who I am, rather than dissatisfaction with who I am not. Gratitude for those in my life, rather than yearning for those who aren't. I strive daily to be mindful and in the moment. To focus on my food before inhaling it. To say "love you" before I dash out the door. Alas, I falter a lot in the process. How about you? Open this video to full screen and contemplate the message. And feel free to commune here. Wishing you all a wonderful and mindful Thanksgiving week.
V-A
11/18/2012 10:31:23 pm
Thanksgiving for you, Laura! Happy Happy BirthDay week! 11/19/2012 12:03:33 am
Happy Birthday Week dear Laura! Thank you for posting this beautiful video. Loved the little girl playing hop-scotch. Hope your Thanksgiving is filled with joy.
Laura Novak
11/19/2012 12:54:27 am
Thank you, ladies. Tell me, what are you grateful for? This morning while driving my son to school, I noticed the formation of the clouds. I don't focus much on clouds other than to wonder what they'll mean for my day. But this video made me realize that they are as ephemeral as all the rest and that appreciating what is above us is as important as what is in front of us.
grannyj
11/19/2012 08:45:25 am
Happy Birthday Week Laura- and Thanksgiving also. I am like you- I try to focus on gratitude. This week I am grateful that a friend of over 45 years is not quite as sick as we feared a couple of days ago. I am grateful that we will still have time to sit and laugh and remember when we were 20. I am grateful that my children are such a big part of my life and that I can sit quietly and listen to my grandsons chatting away as they are busy drawing. I am grateful that I have a man in my life- for almost 40 years- who still thinks I am one hell of a woman. And I am grateful that I have finally found the courage to look at my mother's suicide 50 years ago and begin to come to terms with it. What more could I ask? Gratitude is always about the things closest to our heart.
Laura Novak
11/19/2012 09:14:50 am
Granny J, what a lovely message. Thank you for sharing every bit of it. I hope your friend does well. And I will think about the sound of your grand kids chatting. It's a delightful treat to listen to kids talking in our midst. I'm sorry for your loss. But I am glad that you can now face such a horrific situation. Our journeys are hopefully long, even if it takes a long time to examine part of it. Thank you and be well. This is truly such a lovely comment.
grannyj
11/19/2012 09:22:17 pm
Thank you Laura. You share so much of yourself and your journey in your posts, you create a place for others to feel safe enough to do the same.
Ottoline
11/20/2012 02:42:02 am
Happy Thanksgiving! GrannyJ: I concluded from my father's difficult early life (and his siblings' rather easier ones) that the nicest, best people I know are the ones who faced big problems when they were young. And now (like learning a new word), I see the truth of that everywhere.
Ottoline
11/20/2012 05:22:14 am
Laura -- I've been baking all morning. Here is a Happy BirthDayWeek cake . I hope there are many, many more.
Laura Novak
11/20/2012 08:44:05 am
Thank you Granny J. A blog is only as good as the wonderful people, like all of you, who visit it. And Ottoline, I love the cake! Did you bake this??? I also like your thanks and gratitude as written here. Old friendships and E-friendships: they take different forms but are memorable in their own special ways. Thank you all!
Ginger
11/27/2012 10:23:30 am
Laura, as someone who use to comment here frequently, I've been wondering about something. You use to have great discussions about..."Babygate!"
Laura Novak
11/28/2012 04:53:55 am
Thanks for the birthday wishes all! Got a few loose ends to tie up and then will try to get a new post written. Ginger, I can only tell you one thing for sure and that was that no one ever offered me any money to either write about it or shut up about it all! As I wrote in my "Perftect Timing" post, her lack of a political job coincided with my need to move on. I didn't have any of the leads or resources that many other bloggers had. I think that Regina and I sensed that we'd done what we could. In terms of other bloggers, I have no idea what they think. I'm not in touch with any of them. And I don't have anything intelligent to add to the conversation at this point. Frustrating, I know.
V-A
11/28/2012 11:04:43 pm
A strange thought, regarding Ginger's post. Can it be that women are still so unimportant, so marginal in the power of the world that someone who commits the atrocities and crimes Palin did simply slips through the cracks. Should I be hoping for the day of gender equality where a woman suffers equal scrutiny of a man-- no matter what the topic. Even childbirth and mothering?
v-A
11/28/2012 11:07:38 pm
not enough coffee yet to write clearly, but I reckon yall get my point inspite of the booboos.
Ottoline
11/29/2012 02:12:19 am
Ginger and V-A, I too often wonder about women's place in this world. The disregard that men often hold us in, even when they purport to love us, or like us. Except for Stockholm Syndrome, we are important to ourselves -- and the Women's movement has helped that sensibility grow. I feel that each time I hear Gloria Steinem speak and offer me new illumination. Comments are closed.
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